I've always wanted a serious, long term, and loving relationship. Problem with that is, I can't get a date. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. I get stood up and ghosted pretty often for no apparent reason. On the occasion I do get a date, it seems to go fantastic, all for her to disappear without a single word. Genuinely I have no clue what I am doing wrong.

I'm an alright guy, at least I like to think so. As a status in life I'm just the average Joe, but I'm not butt ugly and I'll always do my absolute best to make her feel special and happy.

Despite that, again, I can't get a date. What I can get though, is just some casual flirting through texts or phone calls. With some women, most text conversations devolve into sexting and most phone conversations devolve into her ranting about what she wants me to do to her, and then she will ultimately send me her nudes, unwarranted.

This summer alone, 6 women have completely out of the blue, sent me nudes. I mean… I'm not complaining, but can we get dinner first? I didn't really have to try very hard, just tell her shes pretty and you'd cook her dinner while she sits back and looks fine as hell. And yes, I realize that them sending me these pictures reflects on them as people and not my pickup skill.

And yes, these women just disappear too. Oh but they dont ghost me and block me without a word, instead they just do a slow fadeaway while pretending she likes me and just has a busy life.

I'm a cheesey romance guy but all I can get is the insanely horny ones.


8 comments

  1. Lol same. Girls Don’t usually reply but when they do it’s someone promoting their fkkin OF. Some even invite me to make content with them, bro wtf 😒. Idk anymore what to. This mismatched gender ratio at my uni is pissing the f out of me cuz I can’t find anyone genuine to talk to.

  2. Did you really just say you’re sexting with them and then called the nudes “unwarranted”? Are you lying to yourself?

  3. wtf, they are probably wondering why you seemed hot and heavy and then didn’t ask them out after the convos


  4. Those who want serious relationships don’t get them those who don’t need them get them and throw them away..
    Very sad World 🌎

  5. Do you have your own place? Can you drive? Do you have a job? Trying to think of reasons girls might ghost other than we just get a lot of matches
you gotta be proactive if you want to meet because there are just a lot of opportunities. Most of them bad, though. 😂

  6. Is it possible these profiles are scammers/catfishers? That feels like the most logical explanation. 

  7. One of the major issues on the apps is that the majority of people on them are not single. A study of Tinder showed 55% of users are married or otherwise in supposedly committed relationships. I’m guessing these women are 1) not single and just looking for casual 2) not emotionally available at the moment and rushing right into sexting because they don’t know how to otherwise connect. If you aren’t interested in these types of women (no judgement if you are), it’s best to unmatch as soon as things get prematurely spicy. A woman looking for a serious relationship will not sext you before actually meeting you for a date.

    I’ve found in person dating events to be much more personable and better for stating an actual dating relationship.

  8. I was just telling my friend the other day that it seems like the only men who hit on me are married. It’s really frustrating!

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