hi, i [mid 20s f] went on a coffee date with this dude who i thought i had great chemistry with. conversation was fun, flirting was minimal but tasteful, and at the end he offered to drive me home which i gladly accepted. but it’s been a while now. we texted a bit the evening after, he said that he had fun and i said i did too and would like to see him again. didnt hear anything for a while, so i sent a meme abt smth we talked about the next evening and he responded soon after to say his week would be rlly busy, but he’d let me know when he was free. i said no worries, still interested, and he responded 2 days after to apologize for the late response and say his weekend had been sooo busy, but he liked my energy. i asked what he’d been up to— no response. i sent another meme 2 days after, no response. it’s been 6 days now rip. i try not to be quick on the Ghosted trigger since i can also take a while to respond, but maybe i fumbled Danny Phantom
not sure if my expectations for chatting between dates is too high, i said smth wrong or im just not what bro was hoping for in person. disappointing, but fine. would it be weird to politely ask if im not taking a hint? i don’t need daily texts or anything, it’s just we sent more msgs before the date. i guess if it’s continued silence after i send it that’d also tell me. i don’t wanna come off as obsessive is all