I (Male 21) have been dating my new girlfriend (Female 19) for a couple weeks now. For context I have not had sex with anyone since I was 19 years old for personal reasons.
The first time we had sex (10 days ago) I wasn’t able to cum. I chalked it up to masturbating a couple hours beforehand. She felt bad but understood. After that I decided to not jerk off at all till the next time I saw her.
Last night she came over for a sleepover and we were having sex with no condom on. I had a full erection and I was having a great time. We had been going at it for a couple of hours, but I couldn’t cum. We gave up and she was clearly upset. Her words not mine “you made me cum 5 times and you couldn’t cum once”.
I felt bad because she thought it was her but i know it’s me. I think I may have deathgrip and I wanna figure out how long till I can function normally again.