I'm 27M, she's 25F.
She has cheated on me twice in the past, but I managed to get past it and accept her again. The reason qhy I decided to give her a chance was that she put in a lot of effort to get me back, she deleted everything, she changed her whole lifestyle, it seemed she was genuinely sorry. She gave up a lot, for me to accept her again. And I did.
Yesterday she flew back from some other city she went for work. A while after reaching back, she told me about a guy who helped her with some stuff, and asked for her number later. And she gave it to him.
I asked whether they've exchanged any messages, and there were a few just within hours of exchanging numbers. It was very apparent that he was trying to flirt.
I've been really mad about this. It just reminds me of the guys she cheated on me with, the whole thing might have started with a simple number exchange. I am getting all those flashbacks of how I forgave her, questioning myself, why. All of those memories come back in an instant.
I just dont know what to do. At moments I think that its just that she shared her number, these kind of things never used to bother me.
But now these things are affecting me super badly. She travels a lot for work. I am just unable to process. Because at the same time I really wanna be with her.
What am I supposed to do?