I don’t know where to even start. So in 2023, I met a guy at the gym. We became friends and then in 2024, we expressed mutual interest. Even since then, I always had to guess if this guy liked me or not. He threw subtle hints and later on admitted he would have never told me he liked me if it wasn’t for me saying it first. I think he’s bad with flirting lol.
We dated and I broke up with him after 4 months dating. I did say I would prefer being friends instead but he did distance himself for 5 months. I think he felt hurt which I understood
In January he reconnected. He called me out of the blue to say hello and since then calls are weekly. We see eachother maybe once a week when he’s around town. All our encounters were very platonic but things progressed oddly. He would start cuddling against my shoulder, grab my hand and thigh, touch my hair, my
Lip…but never kissed me or did anything so I was left confused.
Around July, things got spicy between us. We both pretty much admitted to have sexual attraction for eachother still. The last 2 encounters, we got pretty dirty lol. I gave him a BJ.
Since that day our relationship shifted from friends that reconnected to…. (idk what the hell it is) Anyways a week later he called to check in on me. Then the week after he called to see if he could see me real quick for a “hug” he was around town. So he came and things happened beyond a hug. Just felt like he came for that lol. Don’t get me wrong but the sexual tension is alot. He’s expressed how crazy I make him 🤷🏻♀️ who knows.
Today around 8pm, he called to tell me he was at a work function and had been drinking. He asked if I could pick him up if necessary. He said he had been drinking. I told him yes. Then he said he did bring his car with him so I asked where he would leave his car then? Then he says, “idk Ill leave it there parked for a bit we go grab something to eat so I can sober up and once I feel better then I’ll go back to my car”
He said he would call in 30 min to update me. Never did. Now I’m wondering if I’m just a booty call cause none of the favors he asks for make sense? Why did he call? And also this feels so Greyish and like a test
He did this a while back where he called to say he was was going to ask me to go to a birthday party with him but realized he didn’t send the text. I said “awww would have loved to go” he says “oh reallly? Well I’m
Not going after all”
Ok?????