So my bf works a lot and does long shifts, he calls me after work almost everyday. But lately when we talk he seems disinterested or as if he didn’t want to talk. I understand that he works a lot and still calls me after work, which I really appreciate and he is also quitting nicotine, which can be something difficult too. Sometimes it just makes me sad, when he treats me as if I were “annoying” him, when he act like that I always ask if he needs some space and if he does, I give to him, I just don’t know how to deal with sometimes. How do I talk to him about it in a way that won’t hurt him? I’m also very anxious and have had a hard time dealing with my crises (because of other things in my life), I know I can act on impulse, when I feel that something is wrong or I’m afraid, so I would just like some council, I want to do it the right way, because I love him.
(Sorry for anything wrong, English isn’t my first language)