I was in a relationship for 14 years now I’ve been single for over a year and decided to put myself out there and boy has it changed long gone are the days where you can just message someone without being labelled a creep , I’ve had people block me for just saying hey , dating apps are a huge scam , I don’t think I’m unattractive I work I have goals I’m a decent man but I can’t find anyone I’m not even getting messages most of the time , just wanna give up the whole thing it’s soul destroying .