I’ve been seeing this guy in college and from the start it was really physical cause I liked him, though I was a virgin. He broke up with me claiming to focus on school then reached out a month later for a physical relationship and again said the same thing about school. Sometimes we’d stay up until 6am talking. I’m at a loss b/c shortly after I told him I’m gonna see other people. He lashed out. And weeks later said he has a girlfriend and even hates the site of me. So men, do you really mean it when u say you want to focus on school?