I encounter something along the lines of "Likes deep/stimulating conversation", then the guy proceeds to not engage or ask questions, and messages are along the lines of "hey". Why lie?
I'm not sure if women are guilty of this as well. I matched with a guy and was excited because he's child-free and we aligned on some other values. His profile stated "looking for stimulating conversation", and he asked to text almost immediately. I decided to go for it, then through the course of the whole day said nothing but "hey" and "it's (name)".
This isn't the first time I've experienced this. Are they just straight up lying and trying to sound interesting? I tend to joke a bit and ask questions, because isn't that the point? Anyway, I just blocked him. Everyone is on their phones often, so there's no excuse in my book. And he works remotely, so I don't imagine he can't access his phone for hours on end. 🙄