Pretty much all my hobbies through Meetup are sausage fests. There may be one or two women that go to events but these women have their guard up and are not willing to meet one on one. I asked one a couple days ago and she said she was not even interested in hanging out one on one as friends. I have come to the conclusion that singles events are not conducive to meeting women in this area.
I have given up and taken a break from dating due to the way it is these days, but it is still very frustrating to not be able to make at least some women friends in the meetup groups. I have considered dropping Meetup altogether for this reason.
What is everyone's thoughts on this? And do not say Hinge, I have tried that and have not gotten a single date in about two months (I have had some matches though).