Me '37F' and partner '46M' have been together about 8 years.
It's not the best relationship but he's not abusive (I don't think) and he takes care of his kids and has a good relationship w his kids mom.
Here's where the problem comes in. Whenever we have sex and it doesn't feel tight enough of I queef he accuses me of sleeping with someone else.
Last night we had sex before and after I went to work and the second time he accused me of being loose and having sex with my male coworker in the bathroom at work. That's literally impossible. We have cameras all over the place and there's no reason for my coworker to ever come in the bathroom when I'm in there.
I'm hurt and embarrassed and I can't keep dealing with this especially bc I know how vaginas work and tightness or looseness has nothing to do with sex.
What can I do? What should I do?
TL/DR partner constantly accuses me of cheating based on how my vagina feels during sex