My boyfriend and I are in college and have worked on our relationship and communication a lot. I love him and he loves me, but I worry that his debt and his goals in life do not align with mine. I will graduate with some debt but have a clear plan on how to pay it off, then hope to start a career and own property, etc. He is more interested in his career and does not seem as focused on money or stability. I worry that as adults, I will be held back if I take on his debt or stay with him, but as of now I am super happy with him. I don't know what to do or how to bring these concerns up without sounding like an ass. Thoughts?