Sure, most of men will eventually find SOMEONE, but it's not like the average dude is necessarily swimming with options. What I'm saying is .. most of us don't have much of a choice. Look how many likes an average dude gets on his profile vs. an average woman (with a similar profile picture).
Women often say that at least we don't have to deal with dick pics and other bullshit men pull. They say that out of 100 likes, only 5 are quality … Well, I'd argue that the same is true when it comes to women. There's a equal ratio of shitty women to shitty men. Women don't send dick pics, but they are just shitty in their own way. Only difference is, most men would be lucky to get 100 likes in a lifetime.
As men we kind of just have to take what we can get. Luckily, we don't ask for much, just a girl who's cute and nice, but it does suck feeling like you have ZERO options.
And if you do start seeing a woman, it's like you constantly have to walk on eggshells around her, because you know deep down, if you mess it up with her, the ONE girl who gave you a chance, it'll be 5 years until you get another shot. Women don't have that same insecurity, because they know if they end it with you, there will be 99 other guys to take your place.
So how do you not feel hopeless as a man when you get almost ZERO play on dating apps, when no women will even look at you or acknowledge your existence, let alone approach you IRL (unless you're 6'2"+ and attractive), and every women you've ever liked either friendzoned or rejected you? I just don't see any upsides.