Note: Thank you guys for helping me out I am so sorry for this long post I just needed to get this off of my chest. Love,
Context: I was working at an event for 2 days with a girl. We were basically together for 16 hours a day and got along pretty quickly. We laughed a lot during these days, suffered through our shift and all, we even watched a movie while we were working. When I saw how stressfull she was Igave her a neck massage which she was very thankfull for, I side huged her when she completely lost her patience against a co-worker. At the end of our shifts I ensured her to not carry the heavy bags, always opened the door and offered to carry her bags.
There were times when she was keep getting hitted on and she always looked for my attention and I tried to make her feel comfortable. She felt comfortable enough to dump her problems with our boss on me, and even talk about getting cheated on by his ex. I dont mean she feels the same way as me just because of the things I mentioned but she is a lovely, kind, caring person so maybe she was just happy to work with someone who isnt like those douchebags she usually works with.
So once the 2 day was coming to an end I told her (at the tram station where she dropped me of so I wouldnt walk for half an hour) how pretty, and what a cute caring person she is and I would love to get a tea or coffee with her (I started saying tea first because I knew she likes it). To response she didnt say no she just told me that “We will discuss it”. At that moment I thought she is saying no just in her extremely polite way so I didnt asked for her insta I just said “All right then have a safe drive home”.
We both know each others name and it really isnt hard to find either her or mine insta. Do I follow her private acc and see if she accepts it or do I leave it the way it is because she just felt like I am a friend at work and it was a clear rejection or she was just tired after a long week of work and couldnt be bothered?
P.S.: there is a very little % that I am going to be working at the same place as she works again, but she kinda takes the same route to her job as me but its very unlikely we will meet again by random