I went on 2 dates with this guy in May. The first time we met, he brought me flowers and gave me Starbucks gift card with a cute note. Unfortunately, there was no attraction. The only reason I agreed to a second date was to see if there was more to him than just his appearance.
On the second date (a week after our first date), he gave me another Starbucks gift card. Not sure why….i thanked him and mentioned that there was no need for it. Anyway, after that date, I told him I didn’t see him as a romantic partner and wished him the best of luck.
Idk why but i feel guilty using the gift card and it’s made me avoid Starbucks altogether..
Am i weird for not using it?? I haven’t checked the balance on the second one but the first one had $50 on it..
**I’m unable to leave reply for some reason..but to add some more context…Initially, i considered it a nice gesture and it felt rude to decline the card in person. Also, I was expecting maybe $5-$10 on the card, not $50. I didnt check the amount until weeks later, by which time it felt too late/awkward to message him to return them.