We have been together 9 years. I had a memory surface that happened around 4 years ago I can't remember the full details but someone I used to talk with with before we were together liked my photo on Facebook and I liked one of theirs on Instagram, he liked another of mine on Instagram and that was what happened. We were friends on Facebook but I can't remember if we were already following eachother on Instagram and I have tried to download the Instagram data and it doesn't show anything so I don't know. Another thing is I'm not exactly sure when (a few years ago) during masturbating I had sexual thoughts about a famous man and I have previously been against porn use which I now see as hypocritical of me
Thank you