Woman (34) here with a genuine question… when my man (40) and I do the deed in the evening before bedtime, he always seems extra tired or worn out the next day.
Now, on a weekend night where things can get more “fun!” and last longer, I can definitely understand that being the case, but this also still applies to “quickies” and/or “maintenance sex”. Like, even if the whole act is under 10 min with me doing the vast majority of the work, he’s still far more tired or even exhausted the next morning. Occasionally if it happens in the morning, he’s extra relaxed and lazy the rest of the day, even to the point of wanting an early bedtime.
Just trying to figure out if this is normal, or if I need to drag his ass to the doctors?