I kept looking for ways to do so, the best places to meet women, but there is no such place. Meeting people is an uncontrolled accident. It happens by chance at work, social settings, dating apps, even approaching. You have to be in the right place at the right time, and as a man you don't do the choosing, she does. My draw to dating apps was I felt more control over my dating, but its just still a rare chance of it working out. All you can do is roll the dice more often. Basic human desire for intimacy, is something that happens by accident. Hard pill to swallow, but that's life.