A lot of people say they have decentered the opposite sex, but a fair bit of their activity resolves around them.
I see men talk about protecting their peace, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, being done with women, etc…But so many of them are consuming and commenting on dating YouTube, TikTok, and Reddit content – not to mention 🌽 when there is so much out there beyond that subject to consume and engage with.
I see women talk about how they are choosing to stay single, never settle, etc… but once again, so many are consuming media around dating as well as reading romance themed books (not to mention a little 🌽 consumption, statistically) when there is so much out there beyond that subject to consume and engage with.
I'm not judging because I understand that, try as we (myself included) want, there is a connection that we are biologically inclined and propagandized to want, and it's going to manifest itself somehow.
But, have you ever experienced an extended period of time when you weren't engaging with anything at all dating/gender war related – no dating or media consumption? What did it do for you? If you haven't done it, would you be interested in trying it out? If you do, could you report back in these comments and talk about your experience?