I don't understand where I am supposed to look. I'm 19, male, and at university in Australia. To keep it short, I'm very conservative/traditional (but not religious), and I look for that in a partner, but everywhere I think of looking turns up absolutely nothing. In my classes there are barely any girls to begin with (I do compsci yes haha very funny), and out of the very dead social scene at the uni, the societies that actually apply to me (e.g not about a hobby I don't have) barely have any girls, and the ones that are there aren't my type at all. I've tried going to churches which was definitely better than anything else I've tried (still not many young people) but after a while I realised christians aren't allowed to marry not christians so that kinda got rid of that option. I've tried asking a few friends to see if they know anyone that matches even the basic requirements of im looking for, and no luck there either. And the other day I tried downloading hinge which was by far the worst thing i've tried so far because every single option it gave me was wearing like a bikini or barely anything at all which is a major red flag for me (i ended up deleting it after about 15 minutes).

To be a bit more specific, the main traits I'm looking for are traditional/conservative, modestly dressing, introverted, and feminine (and also saving their virginity for marriage). I know they are out there somewhere, but so far I have been evaded. I think once I actually know where to look, I won't have too much trouble, because I'm good at talking to girls, and I've been told by others that I "won the genetic lottery" (please don't take that as egotistical I didn't mean it that way).

If anyone has any ideas, let me know. Thanks (:


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