This isn't about me not telling him. I will be telling him but I don't know when.
Backstory: My ex and I dated for almost a year, and after a series of bad luck, he broke up with me over text on June 29th. He said he loves me deeply but believes that we are incompatible due to lifestyle differences.
Once I got my stuff from his the next weekend, as per his boundaries, he blocked me on everything and went no contact with me.
I am still devastated by this and love him deeply even a month later.
Yesterday, August 2nd, I was talking with my mum (56F) and complaining about some stomach pain, and she asked me when I last has my period and I haven't, I've only had a few days of spotting every so often, and she asked me to take a pregnancy test. I took two and both confirmed that I am pregnant.
Now, I will be keeping the baby. So, now I need to tell my ex (I will send him a letter in the post).
I've had many people say that I should wait until I have had an ultrasound and confirmed it through that as I could have two false positives.
I have had fewer people say that I should just get it over and done with, and tell him.
I am unsure. So, I came here for advice.