I was in a relationship where I constantly felt disrespected and unwanted. I showed love, gave effort, and stuck by her through the ups and downs — but it always felt one-sided. She ignored my affection, dodged hugs, gave dry replies, and even said hurtful things she tried to pass off as jokes.
After we broke up, I started healing. But recently, a mutual friend told me she wants to try again and was about to send me a paragraph confessing her feelings. Instead, she said she wants me to text her first… even though she’s the one who ended things, and I don’t even have her number anymore. Til this day she still hasn't reached out I was told this a month ago.
She says she doesn’t want anyone else but me, but she hasn’t reached out. It’s confusing. I can’t tell if she misses me or just the convenience of me. I keep asking myself: If she really wanted me, why didn’t she treat me better when she had me?
I’m starting to lose faith in love and towards her. I don’t know if I should give her another chance or let go and continue healing. I just want clarity and real thoughts from people who’ve been through something similar.
Would you respond if you were in my position? Or would you just move on?