We have great chemistry and have made out plenty of times in beginning of us dating but later on he just doesn’t’t want to, almost like it’s too much work. It’s weird and I’ve never experienced this before. I’m a very passionate person with a high drive but I want to make out beforehand. Not just a peck and then put it in. We are only into a month of dating
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Yes. I’ve dated two people in a row where that was the case (the second one I think we just didn’t have great chemistry and it manifested there)
A month in and already fucking, yikes big dawg. Anyway communicate because yknow that’s how you solve relationship problems
Personally id break up with them. I love making out!! And it’s only been a month?! What else is going to end up being “too much work” ???? I assume they also think oral is “too much work” ???!!!!
Not compatible.
i was with someone for a decade who never made out. i compromised because i loved them. we broke up due to their lack of loyalty and i later began seeing someone who does make out. and god damn i missed it. i wouldn’t compromise over it ever again tbh.
I would first communicate how important it is to you. That’s it’s kind of a deal breaker because you are a passionate person.
I doubt it’ll change anything, but at least you discussed it. If there’s no change then say that’s the main reason.
If you’re into someone idk why you wouldn’t want to making out with them. Outside of them being really bad at it. But in that case he should say something.
yeah id dump them. i love making out way too much to be with someone who doesnt want to
If your love languages aren’t compatible that will only eat away at you over time. You deserve to have your needs met, doesn’t mean they are a bad person but just incompatible
Nah, I myself don’t enjoy kissing much but do have lots of sex
Yes, it would be a dealbreaker.
I sure would. It’s a part of sexual compatability for me. And something that I want a lot of. I could not give that up for anyone.
Making out isn’t for everyone, I personally haven’t enjoyed it since highschool it’s nice sure but after a few minutes becomes tedious and unstimulating
If your a person that enjoys it and have unfortunately found someone that doesn’t then that’s a compatibility issue and may be enough to end the relationship if neither are willing to compromise
A month is nothing. Some people don’t like to just as much as you like to, so if it’s important move on, but at least communicate and see if change happens. I personally love intimacy and couldn’t imagine not making out.
Move on!
Can’t have a romantic relationship without intimacy, otherwise your just fwb
Yes