So for context, we've just had an argument about whether I should look at the menu in a hotel or go out, it was petty but I didn't want to go out because I'd just driven nigh on 6 hours to be here and I was tired, she however did. This led to us shouting at each other and then her comparing me to every other man she's ever known saying about how I'm selfish and don't care for her needs or opinions and that every guy she knows is exactly the same etc. but it's just an argument she uses a lot, not just today but just anytime we disagree and it has me questioning maybe her ex's aren't actually the bad people she makes them out to be and she is in fact the catalyst for disagreements and drama. Idk, I'm still tired but now pissed off a bit so this is all still badly written and probably makes me look like a knob but hopefully it'll make sense to someone calmer
Edit. I went out and bought a sandwich and some Swedish fish. I know I said I didn't want to go out but I also didn't want to be in that room either. Funny huh.
Anyway some additional context, the hotel is by the airport as she's from Canada and I'm from Scotland but she's having to go home for a bit to help her dad recover from surgery, but the 6 hour drive to the airport was because yesterday we were down in England at my grandfathers funeral where dad also told us (more me and my siblings than my gf) that mum has had a dementia diagnosis and isn't really herself anymore – I suspected this for a few years but now it's actually diagnosed, I'm not a bad son – so the last week or so has been stressful for us both. But that being said when I get mad I end up apologising because life has been stressful, but when she gets mad it's because I'm an asshole who just does what he wants and is never wrong and can't be argued with and so on and so forth and it's just tiring. I do want her to be happy but if it comes at a cost of my own maybe I do need to really consider if we have a future or not.