They’re transphobic Trump supporters. My sibling in law (their 22 yo “daughter”) is trans, but in the closet. They adopted a 22 yo girl (as a teen) that’s been through a lot of trauma, but scoffed and laughed at the idea that she had any trauma. My MIL once commented on our toilet (which was stained when we moved in) that she doesn’t want anyone to think I don’t clean my toilet (as if my husband couldn’t possibly clean it, seeing as I work 48 hours a week and go to school, while he works 40 hours or less and has 3 days off). I’m just so sick of being around them and want to stay at a hotel or Airbnb the next time we visit. But I feel like they’ll be offended. What excuse can I use to explain why we’re not staying with them?