Hey guys. I (22) male and my girlfriend (21) female have been together for 3 years. We go to the same college and she made a lot more friends than i did and spent way more time with them than me, but i was chill w/ that because i want her to have fun and all that. Fast forward to a few months ago when she was showing me something on her phone i saw messages of her friend saying we weren’t compatible (for context we were arguing a bit during this phase about normal relationship stuff) and instead of agreeing or disagreeing, she asks her friend about the guy she was with at a part a few days before and the friend replies saying he’s single and can go after him.
We’ve been arguing a lot for months and she’s made an extraordinary effort into changing the things i felt weren’t working for our relationship. So much. I know this girl cares about me a lot. It still eats me alive that she said that. Is that cheating? Should i be worried?
TL;DR my gfs asked her friend about a guy at a party and she encouraged her to go after him knowing we were still thought but in a rocky place