Hi guys.. I (32F) caught my husband (36) hiding calls and texts with his (21F) coworker.
We been together for 10 years and have 4 kids 7,6,2 and 1. The reason I was starting to be suspicious and was checking his phone is because he was doing stuff that was kind of out of the norm for me. example: he was getting haircuts more often and uploading stuff to social media of what he was doing like pic of beers.. the night I confronted him it was actually because I found he had searched for a florist in our town.. and well I never got those flowers. I asked for his call log of that day and he showed them to me But then I proceeded to ask him for recent ones and that’s where he didn’t want to show me.. eventually he told me he had done something wrong. And I found out everything He had been texting and calling her on his days off or late at night and early mornings. He claims it was nothing but friendship but the. Again why would he be so adamant in talking to her. He told me The calls had already stopped because she actually blocked my husband. She has a boyfriend not single. And I guess I can’t wrap my head around in hiding all this from me and don’t know how to move forward. He claims it was just friendship that he doesn’t like her but how can I believe him after this.. I don’t want to lose my family but this betrayal hurts.. I tried reaching out to her but she never replied. ( I found her on FB and sent her a msg)
Tldr:
Husband was texting 21f coworker but claims it was just friendship.