I am a male 21 and it seems like everyone has has had some experience dating whether good or bad but they have always had something. I have had nothing and find myself so different and so far from the norms of dating that it all seems like conformity that I will never reach. I have done what i can in terms of appearance and personality and career but I meet people and they just don’t feel that connection with me. I don’t think that there are others like me, I feel like dating is just for certain kind of people. I think the disappointing truth is that its not their fault they are not evil but only following their heart. I think it is possible for me but I would have perfected myself that means career furthered so in a really good position, look into cosmetic treatment and ripping up some of personal interests like fantasy novels or orchestral music and adhering to things that are more normal. This post isn’t really about resentment towards people but more about the world and how I dont really have a place in it and I must become one of you to exist in it. PS please dont say “you are young someone will come along” this is literally meaningless and you dont know that and its false hope like that has as much validity as a fairy tale