I’ve been really down lately when it comes to dating. I’ve had exes who ended things with me reach out when they feel down. They would tell me how much they liked me and regretted ending things.
I would try to talk to them like friends and see if they are able to build trust with me again. If they took that time and I really felt that they cared for me, I would give them another chance. But before you know it, they found someone else and are happy and dating.
It doesn’t help that I don’t date a lot. I’m usually single because I only date ppl if I see a potential for marriage. So I take my time and never rush into anything.
These exes of mine so easily seem to move on and find someone else. When I dated them, I felt like no matter what, I wouldn’t leave their side. To me, I wanted to grow with someone and get married. For them, they dated wat was easy and left when it got too hard.
It just makes me sad. I really want to get married and start a family. I seem to be right for these men but they just want to date around. My exes and I are all in our late twenties.
My heart is broken at this point. I still talk to people but I feel like a girl men never want anything long term with.
I’ve been doing great financially, health wise, hobbies and friends wise. I seriously can’t complain. I can’t figure out why I can’t find someone who mutually wants to be with me :(. I don’t want exes to keep coming back and hurting me.