I think he lost interest after I gave him head. 🥲

So I’ve been having a situation with a friend. Long story short, he has been my friend since 2023, we dated shortly in 2024 for 4 months, and then I broke it off. I told him I still wanted to be his friend but he kept his distance from me. I thought I would never hear from him again.

In January 2025, he reconnected. After the breakup I did see him occasionally at the gym and we would say hi but it wasn’t the same anymore.

He called me the week after new years to tell me his mom has passed. He had been dealing with his terminally ill mom for very long! I appreciated the update and told him I would be here for him if he needed me.

Well since January, not sure what happened, but he would call me every week! He moved homes so I didn’t see him often. He’d only stop by my house to say hello when he was nearby. It was like this for months. I had a feeling this guy liked me still but wasn’t sure. I was getting mixed signals. Like is he only calling bc he’s grieving or???

He would do things like: long hugs, touch my lips (never kissed me), touch my thigh, caress my hair, carry me and spin me LOL.

Two weeks ago, we hung out at his friends house and he was overly FLIRTY. I don’t know what happened! He would look at me a lot and say things like “I’m thinking of all the things I would do to you if we were alone” 😇

I left that night, and as he walked to my car he grabbed my waist very very tight! But still no kiss until I asked him to kiss me! He just “pecked” my lips. I left upset thinking Maybe he didn’t like me and I’m chasing him LOL.

The next day he texted me and told me I turn him on and we started to sext. Again, what happened ?? Since that day he was calling daily for 4 days straight.
I saw him last Sunday and started rubbing my thigh lol. According to him he loves my legs. Then he cuddled his head on my chest. And then somehow it led to THAT.

He was surprised …he didn’t even kiss me. He just kissed my forehead lol.

I didn’t hear from him Monday-Wednesday.

He called Thursday and was so non chalant lol. He was not flirty or anything. He didn’t even mention what happened. Was I bad ? Is he backing off?

Last thing he told me was he was going to visit me next week.