So as a guy i hear about women wanting to be in there feminine and there man to be so masculine and i agree with it but i feel sometimes it gets taken too far where as a man i have very limited and less room to show emotion, make mistakes, be a regular person or hell if i feel confused or unsure about something then it’s like a death sentence because i failed as a man because i have to lead decide and make decisions and that’s okay but what if i felt unsure or confused in a certain thing then what? Attraction lost because i am not man enough?
I commonly hear that women are chaotic and men need to regulate them, stay grounded and composed always and i feel that’s good and i wanna be/am like that for sure but like my ex she would start an argument with me or if she had a bad mood will get cranky but i reassured because if she is at 10% energy then i will give 110% for sure as someone has to control the situation
Honestly i feel these are regular and valid expectation from men but also felt some women do take it too far and as a man i have no room for being confused or sad because i have to plan you know and be a regulator for her emotions otherwise you will be called a “soft boy” or some slang
Is it how this works ladies?