Tldr: she dated a guy for 2 years broke up and never did no contact got w me and constant hid stuff about him and protected him and broke our trust multiple times.
So my gf has had a ex who she dated for 2 years and they never did no contact after breaking up and slept together after breaking up. She then found me a month after and they were still talking and it got to the point where we”d be watching a movie and he would message her and she would respond cos the guy was depressed or smth and needed her to be his own therapist. I didn’t like that and I told her I didn’t like how close they were and one day we were having an argument and she bursts out and yells “ I did EVERYTHING with him”. I start getting insecure and eventually this leads to more and more arguments. And eventually I start thinking this is wrong it’s over between them and she tells me to see a therapist so I genuinely try and work on my self to get over this. I then find her notes on her iCloud account and it’s notes saying I misss his so much, and I know I can’t be with him because of me and long distance and when I asked her out to be my gf she wrote she still missed him and her trip to Korea she had bought him a shirt and wanted to meet up with him in their town. Which he said he didn’t want to cos he was moving on. So just a bunch of stuff that Yk make me think I was right. I tell her all of this and after ages of arguing we come to the conclusion she should do no contact and we can’t try again. They do no contact and a months after he breaks it to send her a message saying I had a dream you were pregnant. She doesn’t tell me this but I find out cos her iCloud is on my iPad and I get the notification. We argue and she says I would’ve told u eventually and we argue more. And then I forgive her and we try again this time we made a deal if he breaks no contact she has to block him on everything including snap and insta. A couple weeks later him and her bump into each other irl and she tells me they had an awkward 4 mins convo and then she said she had to go. I. Reality it was a 30 mins convo she really liked and then he confessed how he felt saying he missed her and him being friends. I found this out cos I accidentally went on her ChatGPT account cos if was logged in on my account. We were on the brink of breaking up but she’s my first and I really wanna try again so he compromise and she blocks him on insta and snap and no contact again although she wouldn’t block him on messages. But a bit after she has a stalker account and I realised she unfollowed me. So I get suspicious and I make one myself to follow hers and I find out she followed her ex. She tells me it’s because her best friend said he posted so they both stalked him and she would’ve told me the other day. We have a massive argument and after a while she starts acting rude and like she doesn’t care and refuses to admit that she’s wrong. She says I’m controlling and there’s no trust left. Is she right in saying what she said and how do we move on from this cos I really wanna fix smth then give up on it