TL;DR: im afraid im getting so bored
because the relationship is too stable
ive 21F been in a long distance rela w my bf 23M for a year now. we see each other every month and each visit could be up to 2 weeks. the relationship has been great, he treats me well, loves me and really gives me the world.
idk if this is a healthy rela thing but we dont really talk alot. when we facetime we j leave each other there and do our own things. when we’re tgt we also don’t talk that much. idk what to say to him and i think he feels the same. hes been on vacay for a few weeks now and we havent called but i also dont feel the need to call him. we dont really text either and i dont feel anxious or annoyed at the fact that we dont text. i dont miss him or feel intensely about him. its gotten to the point that life with or without him feels the same to me. i dont want to feel like this. and esp we both want sth long term so if this prolongs idk how im gonna spend years with this person 🙁
so, i need help. any advice would do!