Obviously this is a question mainly geared towards men, and I’m well aware everyone’s perspective is different, but I’m curious for the general answer to this.

I’ve been thinking about this ever since I realized I probably need a life partner soon (financially as well as I want a homestead, I’m 27f)

But I’m such a goddamn picky eater (thanks tastebuds.. wish we could choose out tastebuds..) as well as eating plant based, that I tend to eat more snacky “meals” instead of prepping like full on meals every night.

As a lady with many couples in her life (family members, friends, etc), i still notice the women are the main cooks of the household.

I don’t think I could do that. I mean I won’t even really touch animal flesh, and I don’t enjoy cooking but just “eat to live” (instead of live to eat like most people around me do).

Of course this is different for each human being, but I’m curious of mens expectations of women they’re dating in general.

Do you men immediately assume she can and will be the cook of the house when y’all move in together? Or is this just old fashioned/traditional way of thinking that our generation doesn’t partake in much anymore?


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