Dear boys,
I just saw someone’s first photo on a dating app and they had a BOOGER in their nose.
I don’t know if it was a joke but it is a trend I’m seeing. I know people don’t like putting too much work on their photos, you don’t even need to be active on social media. but this is basic human psychology.
I know sometimes facial hair and the chill look can be someone’s style. But you really do need to do the maintenance. Maybe shave the neck, pluck the eyebrows, get the hair cut, iron the shirt, change your lightbulbs so your photos don’t look like you’re in a dungeon, get some natural light. In the digital age, people look quickly, but they notice these things often subconsciously. Think of the photos you like on instagram VS the pictures you don’t. The details matter.
or just stick to photos outside, nature never fails to be appealing.
Sincerely, an observant female who took an adderall and scrolled through the apps.