My name is Deven (M19) and I started to date my gf Amanda (F18) 9 months ago, To be completely honest I’m not the brightest,I’m not very intelligent and I honestly suck. My gf has mental issues the biggest being depression. Her life at home isn’t very great she mostly feel neglected from her family and just not really heard, she has this younger sister Bella (F16) and to be honest she’s a brat but enough of that. A lot of the times when something goes wrong at home she calls me for comfort and helping her get over her feeling, the problem is I’m not good at that over the phone I completely suck at it, I think I could do better in person but for some reason I just can’t on the phone, I need help with that. Sometimes I do it but barely, I would repeat myself bc I think I would have like a good saying but she doesn’t like it when I repeat myself bc I’m slow, I just suck and I really love her I just do t really know how I could do better. I think I need scenarios and such.
TL;DR my gf is depressed and I suck at comforting I need help with examples and scenarios sorry it sounds dumb but that’s how I am and I am willing to fix it all