For context, my GF and I are long distance, one state over but with plans to move in together sometime next year. She lives with her family, I live alone. We just passed the 2.5 year mark of our relationship.
Her male friend she met in grad school late last year could not find housing for the start of the final quarter, so she offered for him to stay at her family house with her for the whole quarter, but she would still charge him rent at a discount. They would be doing 2 hour long commutes (both ways) to class together, going to most events together, and doing a lot of stuff together since he doesn’t have a car. She didn’t talk to me about this before mentioning it to him, but called me right after talking to him and explained everything. She also apologized for not coming to me first before offering.
He is a close friend of hers and I trust her around male friends because she trusts me. We both have many friends of the opposite gender. He also seems like a good dude based on meeting him a few times. But I still get a massive uneasy feeling about this that I can’t shake, like something could happen even though I know it won’t. Would you be okay with your gf doing this? Is it normal to feel this way? How do I get over this feeling?
TL;DR,
My GF is letting her male friends stay at her family home for 4 months. I trust her but feel very uneasy about it. Is this normal? Would you be okay with this? How do I shake this feeling?