Within the hour of waking up I am already annoyed and fighting with my boyfriend. For example, this morning I asked him why the dishes aren't done. We have an agreement that at the end of the night he does the dishes so that in the morning we have dishes to use. He told me that we agreed he could do them in the morning. I told him that I never would have agreed to that since sometimes he leaves so early before work he wouldn't be able to finish the dishes. Then he kept messing up small things throughout the morning. Stuff that isn't big but overtime can add up to being a lot.

I work 40 hours a week. My boyfriend works about 30 hours a week. My boyfriend and I do split chores. My boyfriend is in slump. He's stressed due to a lot happening in life. He is also unmedicated ADHD. I don't know what to do because even if I bring it up, nothing changes. We have been together for 6.5 years and are both 22 years old.

TLDR; My boyfriend and I are fighting all the time due to his forgetfulness and I don't know what to do


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