We (20M and 20F) matched on Hinge about a month ago.

And on the moment we matched, we instantly bonded. We went on 2 magical dates, always say how we miss each other. Pure. Heaven.

Now… for context, our vacations are planned in an unfortunate way so that we basically can't see each other for 3 weeks (we're 2 weeks in). And all this time we've kept in contact.

About two weeks ago, I asked if we should keep things exclusive, and she said yes, and that there's no one else we would rather be with. Three days later, as a loving gesture, I showed her I deleted Hinge, as I'm convinced I wouldn't need it anymore. Before I deleted Hinge I scrolled through her profile one last time, and nothing changed.

Fast forward to today. Contact for the last two days has been mild because she's enjoying herself on vacation. I was curious and wanted to check the exact date we matched because we're getting close to knowing each other 1 month, so I downloaded Hinge again just to scroll up in our texts, but I found out that she has updated her profile after we promised to remain exclusive.

This girl, is a dream come true, we've talked about future things, that she would come to my birthday, that we should head to Norway around Christmas. So perfect, so much chemistry. She is a dream come true. Just 5 days ago, in like 5 drunk voice memos, she couldn't stop saying how much she likes me and misses me. 5 days ago.

Is this all gonna crash anyway? Please… tell me this could just be for an ego boost?


5 comments
  1. Don’t ask her, probably just did it to see if people would match her while on holiday for an ego boost.

    Just see how things feel when she gets back and say you look forward to seeing her.

    If you say something and she wasn’t actively trying to meet up ppl, you’ll seem like a stalker and a bit of a creep

  2. And what about you? You deleted it but didn’t delete your profile. How serious are we? It’s also kind of weird to get back on there just to stalk her profile 🤷‍♀️

  3. I wouldn’t bring it up but also try to pay attention to any changes in behavior. Hopefully it was just a confidence booster and not actually her trying to hook up like in vacation

    How did she respond when you told her you deleted hinge? Did she mention wanting to do the same, or that she was happy that you did ?

  4. if she’s updating her profile after promising exclusivity, that’s not a great sign. could be ego, could be doubts, but it’s def not matching your energy. you’re allowed to want someone who follows through

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