There’s this pregnant woman on a dating app who’s interested in meeting me. Says she wants FWB. She’s 40.
Says she is not due until Feb.
The red flag was that she said she got pregnant from another FWB but that guy was good looking so she’s happy. She also said it’s going to be a girl and she’s super thrilled for that. I wondered how does she know the child’s gender so soon.
She said she was busy today evening but is free to meet tomorrow. Felt like she’s going to meet another dude today.
Can you think of any risks in meeting her?
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Yikes 😬 you’re actually considering meeting up with her?
At 40 years it is pretty routine to do genetic testing to see if the baby is at risk for Down syndrome . It’s a blood test and they can determine gender at the same time if she requests it. Usually done around 9-10 weeks.
The baby and mom are at increased risks of STI/STD that can be very dangerous for the baby. She and baby could be hurt/attacked by a stranger she sleeps with. You have to wonder why that doesn’t concern her. Maybe because she’s already positive? Maybe her decision making process is off due to mental health or crisis?
You can find out he gender quite early and she likely did bc she’s older and they did genetic testing at 12 weeks. This testing tells the sex of the baby-i had my last at 38 and did this.
Personally, I think it’s irresponsible to be sexually active with strangers while pregnant as the babys health can be impacted by STDs or worse, someone harming her, if she’s not being selective. People fetishize pregnant women and it’s all weird to me. If she was looking for a relationship and being selective I’d say no big deal, but she sounds like a wreck. IDK if that matters if you’re just wanting some but if she won’t protect her unborn baby, she’s prob not too worried about protecting you either.
You already know you are going to hit it. I don’t even know why you’re asking us 🤣🤣🤣🤣
No, use protection and have fun. The only risk might be she isn’t actually preggo but trying to get pregnant and is using the I already am as a way to coax men into not using protection. As for all the other comments saying she is risking her baby with std’s my view is she isn’t risking any more than the women sleeping with their own husbands without protection when knowing the statistics of men cheating especially in pregnancy.
You mention her age but not yours, hmmm 🤔…
She’s looking for an instant family by adding you as the husband.
Weird that you’d even consider this. She is obviously engaging in risky behavior having unprotected sex with people hence being pregnant.
That risky behavior didn’t cause her to pause and stop, she continues to do it. If you want a fwb just get someone else .
Accepting red flags makes you seem desperate to get laid
That’s a wild one LOL. The dad will be in the picture. If you like 3somes, this is a great opportunity with a pregnant woman
Alright, to be honest… Don’t try too hard to see her. I sense that she may be in over her head and you may catch feelings (if not STI/STDs) going by your growing concerns.
Still, if you feel that you can have a good time without much troubles, go for it
Im a bit of a cynic but I’ve seen some dodgy stuff over the years.
My bet is you’ll go at unprotected. She’ll miscarry. Then because some people think you’re immune to pregnancy after a miscarriage, you’ll all of a sudden have got her pregnant again!!! Go daddy!!!
By my calculations, she’s around 8 weeks? Why has she even given you all this detail. For a fwb? That may not even work out past a few weeks. As a woman,id avoid. Something feels off.
FWB-sure, why not. She DID absolutely get pregnant with a good looking guy, on purpose, at age 40.
So, just know she’s a calculating, manipulative woman if you do go ahead.
She should be focusing on other things at the moment, not trying to find some dude to spackle her baby with the man gravy.
Enormous red flag. Please tell me her profile photo is one of those old Olan Mills style joints where she’s holding her baby bump from the front and in profile over her right shoulder?
Well, a fwb is on the bottom a friendship, a very deep one. I would say meet her, get to know her, and if you end up in bed, use protection. At least until you both are tested, and as long as she’s having other FWBs as well, for both your safety. She might be ethical nonmonogamous and be open about how many sexualpartners she have, but if one of her other partners get infected, then…
Enjoy your new friendship and the potential sexual relationship.
What on earth? She is a messed up woman I’d stay far away if I were you.
She should be taking care of herself not sleeping around while pregnant.
Is this a kink?
Well if she tricked that first FWB into getting her pregnant, yes, she’d be a major red flag.
If I got pregnant on accident with someone who’s not a partner I would be fucking upset and sad for my baby.
She sounds like she’s not okay. Then again, you also sound off considering someone with a fishy story like that, but okay
Are you trying to catch aids or something? Get some standards ….
Are people really this desperate for sex?!
Based on your comments- despite the really red flags here you seem to still want to meet up with her. Aka you wanna get laid.
So all I advise if you is to please wear a condom. Don’t let her talk you into not just because she’s “already pregnant”. Because 1. She could have an STD and 2. MAYBE she’s lying about being pregnant. Idk why this thought popped into my head but there could be a small chance that she’s trying to become pregnant due to her age and “running out of time” so she’s trying to eager guys to sleep with her, likely off of birth control.
But honestly you should just find someone else.
If I were pregnant-I would not be out here dating 😂😂😂. Glad I’m not pregnant 😂😂😂.
When I was young and dumb and full of cum, this would be the idea situation, sex with no strings attached. I had a my share of FWB relationships. They were great.
The big red flag I see as an older and wiser man is the fact she’s pregnant. This tells me that she may have many FWB’s and doesn’t use protection. Sure you can insist on using protection, but it’s not 100% guaranteed.
I would pass on this.
This is a walking red flag
At the very least, she must be a user or have some kind of problem, if she’s not really an idiot. Putting the life of a child still in the womb at risk by having sex with strangers! Each crazy woman has her own story, but whoever is part of this, having several women available, and a big idiot too! Try to deal with these crazy things, if she doesn’t take care of her own body, imagine what else she could do?!😲
Just pork her for the experience points.
The main risk is that you might end up being the stepdad!
She got pregnant around may, there’s no problem of having sex pregnant is actually healthy for her and the baby and can helps in the birth too.
She’s probably very horny and don’t have a partner pregnancy hormones sucks.
If you found her attractive just give a shot and wear condoms.
She sounds disgusting… the risk is your dignity