Okay, long story short he (19m) and I (17f) have been exploring each other sexually and he’s my first but I’m his third… anyway. Before we even had any sexual contact with each other we talked throughly of boundaries and expectations we had with each other and with that he told me his likes and dislikes too. Here’s where we clash: he told me he’s an eater and could cum off of it and that’s his biggest kink (he has ate it multiple times and stops when I’m close or getting there bc he gets tired) and his size has been talked abt a lot too.
We have done multiple positions (still not penetrative sex we’re waiting) and i havent finished yet. He gets sad, i comfort him, and then we do more stuff more focused on him so he finishes. I would love, love, love to finish. I love the connection we have during our moments but I’m edged so bad I’m just left twitching and leaking lol.
Next, he’s not a micro. He’s (I would guess) 5.5 inches hard and when I saw him after he was comfortable enough I wasn’t judging at all. Now I’ve had a warped view of dicks bc of porn but with him being a bit bigger I was accepting any range bc he had other amazing qualities in bed. It’s more him needing comfort bc he’s scared I won’t be satisfied when we have sex.
All that to say, how can I enhance the relationship to be less anxious for him, and get the thoughts of unsatisfactory shit from me? Anyone in a different weight class than your partner also that can give tips or such?
All of this is new to me so I guess I just want open advice from people more knowledgeable than we both are.