I have been dating this woman for four years now. I recently saw a text exchange between my girlfriend and her sister from a night she went out to a bar with friends. She was probably drunk, hence the multiple texts. I’m not sure how to feel about what I read, and I’d love some advice on whether I’m overreacting or how to handle this. We were 29 and 32 at the time.
Here’s the text exchange (my name is changed to Aziz):
Also, she makes a kind of insulting comment about drunk white men, I am brown, so that comment was not about me.
Girlfriend: OMG
Girlfriend: Hanging with a dude from Ghana
Girlfriend: He is so fucking cool
Girlfriend: This text is was an image sent that isnt visible
Girlfriend: Current top google search
Girlfriend: What is my life lots of laughing emojis
Girlfriend: Drunk white guys bring absolutely nothing to the table for me lol
Sister: Omg hahahahahah!
Sister: Drunk white guys are sooo basic
Sister: Ummm slash wheres Aziz?
Sister: Are you just in a group of friends?
Girlfriend: LOL Aziz is busy with school work
Girlfriend: I am bonding with African men laugh emojis
Sister: HAHA!
Sister: Respect, respect
Sister: You do you kiss emoji
Girlfriend: Fucking
Girlfriend: Love
Girlfriend: Him
Girlfriend: Lol
Sister: OMG
Sister: Wait, mr. Ghana?!
Sister: Or Aziz laugh emoji
Girlfriend: Aziz is studying lol
Sister: Careful with sir Ghana honey, I bet he loves you too
Girlfriend: Mr. Ghana is down to DAHNCE
Girlfriend: Yep 100%
Sister: laugh emojis
Sister: DAHNCE
Sister: How did you meet him?!
Girlfriend: Just at the bar lol
Girlfriend: He is fucking cool
Sister: Yasssss
Girlfriend: Lolll
Girlfriend: I am now home ready to go to bed
Girlfriend: I showed him my google search and he died laugh emoji
Sister: Hahahaha sounds like an epic night!!
Girlfriend: It was super fun!
Girlfriend: And all very innocent