I 24f have been seeing this guy 27m for about 4-5 months now. We hangout and go on dates like twice a week and at this point talk over text pretty much every day and occasionally chat on the phone. Naturally I got curious as to where he’s at relationship wise and what we’re doing, goals, where are we are at in regards to each other , etc. I worked up enough courage to basically ask what are we. He said” I’d say we’re dating” I then asked should I call you my BF or are we just like ” dating”. To this he responds “I don’t make those decisions”. What kind of an answer is that. I only wanted to find out where his headspace was at and ended way more confused. I dropped it that night and followed up ab 2 weeks later and got the same answer. I really like him and feel like we mesh well with a lot in common and similar hobbies, he actually makes me laugh and we both make a good effort to see each other despite crazy schedules. I know he’s not seeing other people and neither am I. I know he’s had girlfriends in the past. Basically confused where to go from here. Is the ball in my court? Is there no ball anymore? I don’t want to be annoying about it to him but does it now fall to me to make that call? I don’t wanna force him into anything either. I’ve loosely decided that i need to tell him what i want within the next month or so but idk. Help is appreciated thanks!