How do you feel when people say you’re ‘lucky’ or ‘blessed’ for your looks, do you agree or feel weird about it ?
July 28, 2025
How do you feel when people say you’re ‘lucky’ or ‘blessed’ for your looks, do you agree or feel weird about it ?
10 comments
I say thank you and move on. I dont think or read much into it
A positive comment about my looks? 😳😐
All I hear is 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗
I hate being told that I’m lucky I’m so skinny. It’s literally just because of genetics and the fact that I’ve never carried a pregnancy to full term.
Depends on the context. If they are implying nothing bad ever happens to me or I can’t be depressed or whatever because of my looks that’s not accurate but generally I agree, I’ve often think yeah, I am lucky with that for a variety of reasons
It’s annoying as they don’t know the negative side of it
It’s strange mix of feeling flattered and feeling sad. I used to be overweight, shortly even obese, so I’m not used to being referred as model-tier blessed. There is always some level of pain over my past self and how she was viewed and almost an impostor syndrome over how I am now.
It also angers me when I’ve gotten snide comments about “how things must come easy to me” referring to how I look. No, I was that bullied chubby girl, I had to work extra with most things to prove myself.
I never believe them. I roll my eyes sometimes.
It would feel very weird, as I’m not looking good and get a lot of harassment for being ugly.
Depends on the circumstancs, most of the times it’s an attempt to get between my legs. Usual response is “thank you”, and try to move the conversation to a different topic
I get why people say it, but it lowkey feels weird. Like… would you still be this kind or respectful if I looked different?
10 comments
I say thank you and move on. I dont think or read much into it
A positive comment about my looks? 😳😐
All I hear is 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗
I hate being told that I’m lucky I’m so skinny. It’s literally just because of genetics and the fact that I’ve never carried a pregnancy to full term.
Depends on the context. If they are implying nothing bad ever happens to me or I can’t be depressed or whatever because of my looks that’s not accurate but generally I agree, I’ve often think yeah, I am lucky with that for a variety of reasons
It’s annoying as they don’t know the negative side of it
It’s strange mix of feeling flattered and feeling sad. I used to be overweight, shortly even obese, so I’m not used to being referred as model-tier blessed. There is always some level of pain over my past self and how she was viewed and almost an impostor syndrome over how I am now.
It also angers me when I’ve gotten snide comments about “how things must come easy to me” referring to how I look. No, I was that bullied chubby girl, I had to work extra with most things to prove myself.
I never believe them. I roll my eyes sometimes.
It would feel very weird, as I’m not looking good and get a lot of harassment for being ugly.
Depends on the circumstancs, most of the times it’s an attempt to get between my legs. Usual response is “thank you”, and try to move the conversation to a different topic
I get why people say it, but it lowkey feels weird. Like… would you still be this kind or respectful if I looked different?