Match with a woman on a dating app. We get to messaging, seems like she likes me, so we get the date scheduled.

She still wants to message with me, though. I prefer to learn about each other in person, but… if she wants to interact with me more, who am I to say no?

She starts to like me more and more. Continously saying she thinks I'm funny, sweet, caring, and that my looks aren't bad either. Things seem to be going fantastic.

Just before the date, I check my messages with her. She blocked me. On everything. If I didn't just happen to check that before going to meet her, I would have been stood up. The sixth time this month alone.

I have no idea what I am doing wrong. I'm not just racing into getting the date scheduled, I'm organically building to it, and she will just be all over me with her messages. Then in an instant she changes her mind and wants nothing to do with me. Not one word exchanged.

I'm not a diamond in the rough by any means, but I'm definitely not a deadbeat either. I like to think I don't deserve this treatment over and over again, but this is getting demoralizing.


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