Hey men on dating apps, just some advice from a woman. We women want sex and intimacy also. But we don’t want it shoved in our face. If you want an actual relationship, don’t lead with sex talk, it’s very off-putting from a stranger. It’s all more complicated for us. More consequences, more risk, more danger. Please just know that and understand what it means… it means I won’t go to your place on a first date even if I think you’re really attractive; it means I won’t invite you to my place even if I want to. Be in 2025 with us. Slow down. Let us know you are safe. It’s a mutual benefit I think.
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I feel like the people that need to read this don’t hang out in dating subs.
That’s why I start with a normal convo.
Well said!
THIS! Physical intimacy is so important to me and want my freak flag to fly, but just have some patience, pleeeaaaassseee.
Even after I’ve been intimate with someone I still need them to slow down, continue to date and get to know me emotionally and not assume they have free use of me for sex lol I wish men understood that the sex just comes naturally with the progression of a good emotional relationship
Like why do women feel like the weird ones for asking the “safety” questions. Shouldn’t you also be worried? Like what if I’m the weirdo??
I never lead with physical insinuations, and i typically get shot down/ghosted. I’m an attractive, and successful male. I honestly dont understand 2025, wish I could have been born pre 1980