For those that have conversations to help determine sexual compatibility, what are you asking, talking about, curious about?
I’ve ask how they feel about consent. This was in intimate, but non-sexual scenario.
I ask about kinks.
Other questions that could be important: hygiene, libido, how often they like to sex, positions, talkers or the silent type, etc.
What all can you ask to determine sexuality compatibility without having sex (and having at the least an uneventful experience and at the worse assault or murder)? After one or two dates that seem great and then I proceed and they turn out to be creeps or jerks. I’m asexual, but I still enjoy some types of intimacy (just not sex) every now and then.
What are some red flags that shows someone is either a terrible person to be alone and naked with or it’s not a red flag, but they might be a terrible at sex?