Till now i have been in a lot of situationships or fwb so i don't quite know how real relationships work yet. But for a first time i met a guy i can have a real relationship with. I'm 21F and my partner is 24M. We've met on a dating app, talked for about a month just through social media and now we've been seeing each other for over two months.

TL;DR – since i still live with my parents, i spend a lot of time at his place. We see each other 3-4 days a week and i sleep at his almost every time now. He treats me good, buys me food and flowers just because. Knows i struggle with anxiety and my ocd so he tries his best to always help me. he gives me rides home and even to his place because he doesn't want me to walk or take public transport so nothing happens to me. Sometimes i feel like i don't even deserve such treatment because i've never been treated this way before.

We've talked about relationships and what would potentially change and how we see it and found out that the only thing would be the title "relationship" and calling each other "bf/gf". This conversation was like a week ago. Now my question is when is the right time to ask "will you be my bf/can i be your gf?" like i talked about it with my friends and some say that i should wait and other that we should have already have the talk about it. I'm seriously lost and would appreciate any advice!


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