tl;dr Basically, I been seeing a girl for 7 months and been enjoying the relationship. I feel really comfortable around her and even have sexually interest. However, the more I get to know her I realize that it isnt the type of girl you should marry due to conflicting interest, long terms goals, and overall compatibility. She doesnt see that as quick as you but I see it. She still loves the relationship and sees a long term future.

Should I break up or keep dating until it reaches a more organic end?

. We hang out everyday together and are best friends. However, she wants to be stay a mother and wants 10 kids. She also is in 16,000 of credit debt as a teacher. I on the otherhand want to leave the state and travel. I only want two kids at most and I am becoming a doctor. We are very different but we get along just fine however I know marriage wise this would not work. I am happy in the relationship though.

Also I forgot to mention that we are both late bloomers and each other's first. I have not strung her along with the intent of causally dating her as she knows that we can break up at any point. I have had the conversation a few times with her. And she has even tried to break up back in May due to miscommunication issue. As a result, she has already said that she understands that we are both still deciding but she feels strongly about me.

What would I do?


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