Not really sure what else to say. It's very obvious though and it sucks because I don't really have anyone to talk to about this so here I am, posting on reddit.

We don't have much money, I was an unemployed student and I've finally landed a dream job with a decent pay a few weeks ago so to me, that gave a light at the end of the tunnel for the money issues but my partner still gets into these moods where he is cold, rude, resentful and gives me silent treatment. It's always over money too, and it's been going on for the duration of our nearly 3-year relationship. I can always sense that he's in a bad mood, but recently it's become more obvious. There's not really much you can do when he's like that, other than waiting for him to come around. But it's truly awful on me. And I get a half ass apology at the end of it which can be after days of this behaviour. Sometimes I even have to ask for the apology, so yeah.

I don't really know what I'm looking for with this post, mainly just venting and seeing if anyone had any similar relationships. I don't know what to do anymore, or how to feel. Will these moods he gets in ever go away, even when we do have money? I can't tell if he loves me anymore.

TLDR: Boyfriend has been taking out money troubles on me, leading me to believe he resents me


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